And guys, I appreciate your feedback and advice, but PLEASE don't 2 x 4 me for "talking" one last time. I had to do it for myself, to flip the switch, as they say. I have been trying to find a way to detach and I just needed it to do that. Now I feel like I put my cards on the table and he knows where I stand, too. So I am glad we talked even if I didn't get the result I wanted, because I can move ahead now.