Hey everyone. Thought I would post an update although there's not much to post.
Weekend was typical. Friday night, W is pretty distant. I had asked her if she wanted to go out and get something to eat and I got the normal response when she's avoiding spending time with me, "I'm not hungry". So of course, as soon as we walked in the door of the house she's going to get something to eat. Really, if she doesn't want to go out, ok, but why not just say so? So I went out without her.
Came home about 3 hours later and really didn't say a whole lot to her. Went to bed and W slept on the couch so the puppy wouldn't cry all night.
Got up Sat morning and relieved W of puppy duties and she went up to bed. She came downstairs about 10 and was a completely different person. We laughed and joked and then worked in the yard for about 5 hours. When we came inside SHE asked me if I wanted to go out for dinner.
So we did. Had a good time. Talked and ate and had a couple drinks. Talked some more. Came home and we were both pretty whipped from the yard work and being in the sun all day so we both fell asleep pretty early.
We did leave the dog in her kennel Sat night and she slept all night, so that was good.
Sunday, more of the same. Talked, had some laughs, went grocery shopping together, made some jokes. Pretty decent day.
Sunday night we watched Desperate Housewives and I know it had to hurt W. There were a whole bunch of comments about committing adultery and accepting responsibilities for your actions and consequences of your actions. The one point where one of the women talks about having an affair with a married man and one of the other ladies rips her pretty good talking about if there are problems in their marriage they should work on them and not cheat, W was sitting there with her head down and it looked like she was doing all she could to not cry.
W was pretty decent this morning. I got up early to take care of the dog and when she came downstairs she was pretty talkative and such for a non-morning person like she is.
That's about it. Nice weekend if you're ok with being platonic friends.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.