Oh Glam you're right it is a mess, you would think after all this time a blind man could see your changes but not the person who is supposed to love and know you best-he is certainly a champian grudge bearer!
Just keep on making the changes for you and your family. Please God one day he will see that life is too short to spend it brooding and dark thoughts.
How would he like it if you moved and forgot to tell him where you live? just in case he called by and wanted you to fix him a quick snack when your detoxing! I know silly but it does make your mind think these things when you are the only person working your socks off to save your m and alot of it for his benefit.
So raw or cooked veggies?