The news on xBF is very good. Heed the advice and be patient, eventhough I know how hard it is to put your emotions and excitement in a bottle. Be excited here and be neutral and "friendly" w/xBF.
As for the Piscean, I'm so proud of you for telling him straight-up what is going on w/you and xBF. Your honesty and openess will be the difference. You won't be saddled w/guilt of "hurting" him b/c you haven't deceived him in any way.
Good work....and good news on xBF.
I'll keep watching and waiting from here while sending all the positive energy I can muster for you, Princess.
Ali, ((((())))) Sorry I AM really pleased and hopeful for you truly I am. Maybe my post didn't come across as such-thats just me I'm afraid. I know the tears you have shed and I just was trying to calm you a little and advise caution, but if thats not your style just go with the flow and be lucky. Have a good day.
Hey Al, I hope your friend J knows what she is talking about and if she does... WOW!!!!! Good news. He reached a decision? Sounds like it. What neaj is trying to tell you is be careful and I agree with her. Other than that... WONDERFULL news!!! xxx Love ya K
Hey everyone, thanks for watching and reading still !! And Hi K...glad you are ok... I know, be careful..But J is a VERY levelheaded sensible woman (head of 30 staff at a hospital !!) so she wouldnt have said anything unless she was sure.. but then, my ex is VERY slow to act, so I dont expect swift action!
Wow the Pisceans timing sucks though.. I thought about him alot last night strangely, after getting the above news. We had such a nice chat on the phone. His house is lovely, and by that I mean, he is much like me, he has created a home, plants, bits and bobs he has collected, or made, its quirky and homely and you can see the creativity all around. Thats something my ex never did. He is currently living in the spare room of his mates house - much as he was when I first met him. But, my BFF made a good point.. she said, that I gave all that to my ex, the sense of home and belongoing (and he said he misses our homelife) something he cant manage to create for himself and he gave me that life outside of the home - friends and that sense of belonging amongst people (without him, I am largely home alone all the time, as the Piscean is!).
I'm trying to say, that I'm feeling a bit strangely torn between two soulmates, who offer a very differnet kind of life. Which is more appropriate for me now I am older? I had a lot of fears that stopped me doing stuff from around the time I met the Piscean, 19 years ago, until the bomb 2007.. and since I let go of all of that, I want to go out into the world and see places and people, I dont want to stay indoors anymore. So I guess the Leo wins. And becuase I love him. Its tough though, I'm not 100%. Thats why I am ok, because I know I will be either way now, the universe sent me love!
And all the stars are saying the same thing.. read Priya and this from the excellent Micheal Lutin:
Monday 20 April
Look up in the sky over the next few nights to see the celesstial beauty of it all Icons will bid the world adieu This is the most emotional week you will pass through could be intensely romantic or a four hankie screamer
bittersweet good-byes as relationships go through a no-turning back transformation endings aren't always the endings you think they are as endings are only the prelude to new beginnings bittersweet good-byes lead to angry reactions afterwards or possibly just the ability to move on and not look back
this is the most emotional few days you will have in a long,long time as the Moon moves over Venus, Mars and Uranus at the end of Pisces and Moon Venus and Mars flip into Aries it's heart-warming and gut-wrenching at the same time
