Thanks J,

I am glad you responed so quickly. My first problem is what to do about what happened 10 minutes ago? What do you think? Should I text her?

My strategy is GAL'ing, going dim and trying to be as cheerful as possible when I see her, but as soon as I see her I backslide. The thought of her being in a PA now is really eating me away, so my strategy is the above but it has only been a week since we seperated, but my problem is I am so impatient, but she wants to re-build her life as she said to me this morning. I so want to reconcile, am I in denial, should I try and move on, though that is definately not an option at the moment or in the future.

My current situation has not gotten worse (until today), if I am being honest our conversations last week have been better, so I would say the situation is slightly better. I do not know though if her demenour has changed because of what I think she is up to and nothing to do with me.

Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/20/09 10:28 AM.

Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years