Hi Silver Fox,

I actually read some of your sitch about a week ago, and liked your use of the "consequences" comment that I used it myself!

My H didn't want to come over to help me with filing of our joint tax return (first time for me) and I said, "Neither do I, but that's the consequences of the choices that you made. I had no choice in the matter."

Glad you came over to this forum!

Trampledheart

M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet