No, this is not going to be a recipe exchange and I find very little humor in it. And no, I am not living in fantasy.

What is really sad is that I am sure if some had it to do all over again, they would do it differently but to come across as bitter, angry, as if to say that the way one person deals with their individual situation is not right or that they are living a fantasy is just plain wrong.

I feel for the new people here who come and read this and see that some of what is posted comes across as mean-spirited, childish and very uncalled for. Then they walk away and say to themselves, "Gee, maybe their spouses left them for the way they come across here...."

No two people are alike and therefore what works for one, may not work for the other.

I really have nothing more to add but Braveheart, I would suggest you begin your own thread and have your fun there, not at someone else's expense.

People do come here to learn, listen, cry, and seek comfort.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19