I don't have any great words of advice..... but I will keep you and your family in my prayers also. My faith is the only thing pulling me through right now :-)
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09