Silver Fox-this is the first time I have read your sitch. I am so sorry you are going thru this. Your h and my xh has said some of the similiar things. It still amazes me at how they all say the SAME THINGS basically. I sometimes wonder if my xh is in MLC, then I hear other people talk about what their h and xh are saying and it's basically the same stuff. It sure is common. My xh told me "if we got divorced, we could always get remarried", he also said, "he loved me but not in love with me and wanted to try a different companionship". He also asked me not to contest the divorce and that he would ALWAYS take care of me and son. He promised me the moon, I fell for it, we used the same lawyer and he doesnt have to help me pay for our home. My son is 18, so I dont get child support. We also were married for 20 years (this April). He said no WOMAN would ever come before me and son. He also said, no one would ever live with him or he would never be remarried again. We had alot of stress financially but nothing we couldnt have handles. He said he was depressed and unhappy and had to leave. He now lives with a 26 year old girl. They met around end of Jan. first of Feb. and he already proposed to her. Crazy isnt it. Everything he said of course went right out the window. We dont have ANY contact anymore. He stopped taking my calls, although he does still talk with son and they are leaving for fishing trip soon. I dont understand why is is moving so quick. We have only been divorced for around 4 months and he only met her around 2 and a half months ago at best, maybe the middle of Jan. He was saying a month ago, that her time was almost up and that she was complaining about him going fishing. NOW it suddenly changed, I wish I knew why. Doesnt matter, I just wish I knew. Anyway, it sounds like you are a very strong person. I didnt find this site until around the time I was divorced, so I didnt ger to DB. Hang in there and trust that GOD will work it out one way or the other.
