So I haven't gotten a chance to log in this weekend which is great because it meant that I was busy GALing and enjoying my life. Had a good weekend. First on Friday, I weighed in at weight watchers and I lost 2.6lbs, a total of over 5 lbs. Yippee. I was so happy. Friday night I walked the city and did some shopping. Saturday the weather was great. I walked in the morning and did some work at our bldg and then hanged out with my mom for a bit. Then Sat night I went to a nightclub with my girlfriend. So gotta give you guys an update about my crazy H...
So on Sat night H and I also had a rental at our place and H goes after the function to close up and clean up a bit. So while was out with my girlfriend he texted me that all is well. I didn't get the text til an hour later around 2:30am. I texted him back thx for letting me know so I don't have to worry (h never texts me when he takes care of the place so it was really nice that he did). Anyway, so apparently he called the house ph after b/c I could tell on the caller ID but then he called my cell and I missed the call and he text me r u home? Since I wanted to send H the message that I'm happying and enjoyning my life I went to the bathroom in the club and called him back. He heard the music in the background. I was trying to just give a quick call but he then asked where am I, and who I'm with. I said I'm out with a friend and then he said you can tell me if you're on a date, I don't care. But I said no I'm not I'm just having a good time and I told him which friend I was with. He said he didn't believe me but I was probably on a date. I wasn't getting into that convo too long so I him gotta go and he should "go home to his woman". I didn't say it angrily though, just matter of fact.
So, and this is the funny part, H texted me back, "I don't have a woman I have a wife." Me: no response. H: I do appreciate you, ok. me no response. H (45 minutes later): I would like u to leave at 4. (4am that is) Me: no response, even til now Sunday night at 10:30.
Isn't he too funny? Where the hell did the I do appreciate you come from. I was cracking up because I think H is full of himself. Until he moves from living with OW there is really nothing he could say that will convince me now. I need actions. And the last text he sent. Is he out of his mind. He is crawling into his little basement hole with OW and then wants to dictate when I stop having fun.
I gotta say my behavior now is a lot more empowering than waiting on H and giving him all that power. And the goodthing is that I am actually not doing any of this to get to H. When I started DB I would not call H but would wait to see when he will call, but now I'm just trying to live and enjoy my life and not to have H keep hurting me.
So all's well on my end. Will keep you guys posted and thanks for all the support. Before DB I handled my sitation very differently.
