I am quite amazed how may posters are interested in my dating! I remember that you already asked Vali in Surviving a few questions.
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How do you sift or sort when looking at ads for possible dates,obviously you don't give a financial statement, lol, so is it just a case of talking and meeting up first?
I just look at the different ads on website and if I like what the ad says I reply. I usually go for funny ones since I would like to meet a guy with a good sense of humour. And then either the questions are asked in writing or at the first meeting. I usually don't ask much but if the guy asks me anything I want to know it from him as well.
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... and just wondered if by upmarket you mean culturally as in say theatre tastes, classical music or do you mean having more money to spend on entertainment, days out etc.
The guy I was dating thought that I must have tons of money to spend because I asked him if he goes to a certain restaurant which is upmarket.
Today I thought that maybe he would like to meet somebody younger since he is quite a bit younger than I. Although I didn't tell him my age he might have guessed it. He might have written what he did because he didn't want to tell me that I am too old for him – who knows.
Anyway, naej, I hope I answered your question.
Hi SoConfused,
I agree with naej, you are still so young. I have not dated anybody as long as you are old!!! You are still so young and I am sure you will have no problem getting to know somebody.
Hi Cinders,
I did write to the guy if he would like to be friends but have not received any answer yet.
Last night I went dancing and I must say that I didn't enjoy it much. We went to a disco where the music was good but very loud. However, there was nobody there and some women danced on their own. The guy we took along found it silly the way the girls danced and I found it super. I like to dance with music from the 70s, 80s and 90s in a modern way and the guy in a classic way. So that didn't work out well. And all the time I wondered what I was doing there and that I would prefer to dance with my H. When I got home I was quite depressed.
At least I cheered up again today since the weather was beautiful and warm again. Next week I will meet two more guys. I wonder how the dates will turn out.
