Quote: Interesting subject, though. Do either of you ever have the feeling, like I do, that it would be nice if these guys showed even a little jealousy or possessiveness once in a while?
Personally, I think every woman likes his man to show a little fear of losing her, and some possessiveness. But only a little: it would get quite uncomfortable if he got to be too much of a bear.
I did get a huge thrill this July 4th, when my H showed up at the party and saw me chatting with the guys. And there were a couple of really good looking ones that were quite interested in me... My then-estranged H stood guard by me the rest of the evening, with our daughter for reinforcements.
We are only human after all...
As to the revenge affair: it is a tempting thought but I think it would be stooping to his level. And that robs me of the high moral ground (which is good to have even when you do not use it). Ooops, my machiavelic side is showing...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
