Quote: He hopped in just as I was saying goodbye to the pharamcist and asked who I was talking to. I SWEAR, without even thinking and in a very joking/light tone of voice I said..."Oh, that was just my boyfriend, we're meeting later".
One look at CJ's face and I knew that he did NOT find my quip funny. I told him immediately who I'd been speaking with. He said that this was a touchy subject for both of us and I agreed (although I THINK I threw in a bit about me NOT being the one who cheated). Kind of put a damper on lunch.
sometimes I wonder if h thinks I'm more likely to have an a now...kind of like a "revenge one" though maybe not that reactive? Like, it's all that guilt talking...don't I deserve to have her cheat on me? or, at least, why wouldn't she?
Sounds like you handled it great AND it got you talking! Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
