I'd also recommend that you NOW, ahead of time, take some quiet time to pray and reflect and decide how many "strikes" you are willing to put up with in terms of re-contact.
ANY further contact is a deal-breaker? (no strikes)
ONE, but only if she proactively self-confesses it?
ONE even if YOU find out about it?
Two or more??
I suggest this because if it does happen, at the time you'll be so distraught you won't be thinking clearly, so it's a good idea to decide ahead of time just what you are (and aren't) willing to put up with.
