so peace you agress that my xh has jumped in to soon? I dated my xh for 6 months and we married and it lasted 20 years! How does this differ if it does? Also, my xh had just lost his father 5 or 6 months prior to meeting me. His family sort of fell apart after that. I guess what I am trying to say is how come we lasted 20 years if its wrong to jump into a relationship so soon?
