Consistent changes like helping more around the house and with the children, not losing my temper or smacking the children is really big for me but I now talk to the children more. Unfortunately, I have now moved out and I have found out today in my first weekend seperated, my wife stayed out overnight somewhere but told my daughter this morning she overslept and was at the house. I went to the house this morning and found lights still on, curtains not drawn, the fish had not been fed and the bed had not been slept in. I have spoken to her today but I did not mention it, as much as I wanted to. I guess this is why she wants to divorce so quickly, to bring the new man into the open without it looking bad for her or to her family and friends.
I will continue to GAL, PMA, DR and build my relationship with my children. I have not stopped thinking about the deceit and the lies, and the fact because we are now seperated this gives her the opportunity and reason for probably going from an EA to a PA for the first time last night.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
