The Piscean phoned.. we had a really nice, honest chat. I asked him about his W.. she calls every day, but he hasnt seen her for ages. He said he has pretty much accepted it isnt going to happen again between them, and that he doesnt really want it to now, especially after seeing me again. That I had helped him see things alot clearer, taht there were lots of things he wanted to say to me, but that he would wait until my college course finishes as he didnt want to put it on me yet. He said, I've waited this long, I can wait some more.. I said ok, lets talk then (end May/June). He didnt ask about my ex, but I told him again anyway, that I am still in contact with him and waiting to see, that I am not in the same place it seems he has now getting to with his STBXW. But they have been S for 5 years and not even together for the past 18 months.

SO I feel better that we have cleared things up and we had a nice, straighforward chat.