Rough and Ugly Four Months going on LIfe

[MsMelancoly]

Try not to worry about what you cannot control. That is very difficult - yes. Who knows, maybe you will become friends, with some of her friends. Maybe they will see what a good man you are. There are positives too.

My point in asking about her complaints was, it seems many of the things she complained about, you are working to change. (& you were unhappy about some of them too). So she threw out all her complaints & she was ready to walk. Then you started working on them & yourself. She took notice. I bet she thought in this economy, there is NO way, you could find a another job, let alone more pay! What is she coming up with now, breast feeding - lol She also my be afraid, because if you are moving closer to possible OM, how is she going to handle this?

Like I said, she has a lot of think about. Olbiviously, she still loves you. I would expect a rollercoaster ride of emotions from her, unless, she is totally detached from you.