I find myself questioning what I said. Did I lie? I hope that I can really forgive her. I can't stop shaking. Somebody please help me.
Hey AF,
I have a friend that is going through reconciling after an affair right now.
You most likely have already but I would get a couple of books specifically about that (there are several out there) and check out the threads.
Just like my situation now. I waited until my wife left to read some books and learn, I wouldn't want to wait until the second week of her being back in the house to read adivce that could have helped.
Be strong because if she comes back your frame of reference is going to shift. My friend is committed to improving his marriage but reconciling is just as tough on him as the thought of divorcing was. Just didnt' take him as long to overcome it.
