Hi Glam, I am sorry your H is still stuck,hard and fast. I certainly don't feel you expect to much from him as a husband but maybe as the person he is now yes.
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I also see positives, but so little in movement. For example, h said he was going to share with me where he is living in C 4 months ago and then says no I don't want to say.
He also said most recently he would start spending the night. That has yet to happen. A start would have been the night before Easter, so he was here in the morning for the kids.
It will be 3 years I guess since you started this come August have you never known where he lives? that is amazing. Why do you think he keeps it a secret? did you go over to his place before and make a fuss or have you never known. My x was a complete waw/mlc who knows really, but although he never saw us every time he moved which was quite a few times he made sure I had the address and phone numbers to contact him. You are right something does need to happen or you could still be here 3 years down the line( that happens more than you think) Snodderly suggested being less available, doing your own things and not waiting on him, could you step all that up a gear, good for you on the taxes btw. Has the fact he has never stayed a night been brought up in C again after he made that promise? just wondered what options they offered you. I guess you just leave him were he is and move ahead, he can catch up. It is so frustrating for you and life is moving on years wise for us all and it is so sad b/c these years never come again.
Do you have the veggies cooked or raw? Are you looking for an allergy/intolerance or just kick starting a diet? Take care.
