Originally Posted By: GoingForward
That part is out of your control and something you will really have to work at accepting. I know you said you have, and I believe you. I just know that for myself, a lot of times I'm pretty confident about some things and I'll say this or that doesn't bother me or that I don't care if xyz happens, but the truth deep down is...I do care.


You know me too well. Of course I care, but I also recognize that I can't control what she does or thinks or says. It just really sucks and I will have to choose my words carefully in order to get my point across without entering into the guilt trip arena or just unleashing on her. Neither of which will be productive. I'm just at a loss. I don't know a lot, but I know myself well enough to know if it was my son in this situation, that would not ever have entered my mind. Hey honey, can I offer you and your home-wrecking whore a place to live, even though you are still married to my DIL? Thats just not who I am, especially now.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option