I'm worried about the CO move. She could possibly be giving up so much career wise and pay which will become evident in quality of life. She wants to get out of where we live now. It has not been fun for us. She has friends out there and possible more. It will be a change but it is so wierd to see someone ready to drop everything just for change.
I really hope this works out for her.
It is obvious that daughter (single mom) stresses her out. Daughter called last night after I left to say goodnight and I didn't call back soon enough. So she was asleep and I ended up talking to wife. she sounded down so I asked how she was. She said stressed from trying to get daughter to sleep. Daughter was sleeing on the couch next to her. That really shouldn't be a big stressor?
She is trying harder with daughter though. I can see it and that is really positive. She hates kids movies but took daugter and one of her friends to one today. And yesterday went up to the neighbor and laid out with their family with our daughter. The neighbors are my friends through this and she has reached out to the wife. So something is changin. I am not in the picture but right now I really just hope that she gets to a happy state and her realtionship with daughter is solidified.
I am a big boy and can pick my self up after this. My daughter needs to respect and lover her mom as much as she loves and respects me.
Thats another fear I have about CO, how will it change when she is now out there with the people she spends all night on the cell phone with?
