Hi, I'm new here and the finances really confuse me. I am dependent on my H (he is staying at a friend's house) and have two children with him. I have to ask him for money every few days and it is driving me crazy. I feel so irresponsible ignoring our massive debt. I am thinking about asking him if he has a solution (as I am usually the one to take action), this would be a 180 for me if I do it right. Still, I am putting pressure on him by addressing it. I would love input.
