Amazingly enough you can do all three of those, or even just two of those at once.
It's damn hard work but very rewarding. I'm just coming to the end of my degree (last pieces of work have to be in on 29th April). It was probably the wrong time to do just when H first left but you know what it's meant I've done something for ME and it has been well worth the effort.
Now all I need are all those friends you have b/c I'm sick and tired of my own company
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
