you have a lot going for you and keep up the good work. please don't tell her you are reading DR or DB because she might view that as manipulating. it isn't, but WAW's think so.
also, keep your loving distance. you are doing good. and see how a little mystery got her attention? keep going out with your friends though, because WAW will jerk your chain and you will be back begging and crying.
women really piss me off and sometimes i'm ashamed to be one. this game-playing and mind-f*cking they do is embarrassing. they say they want x, y and z. but the minute you give it to them, they want something else. maybe it's a generational thing. i don't recall my mom whining about her fe-e-e-e-elings when she was having a rough time. it's sickening, really, to expect your mate to fix your childhood b.s.