Hey Kenn, Yes I understand much of what you are saying. I think a lot of it with my H is, that you expect to be & have certain things in your life at a certain time. If it doesn't happen, it can really throw you into depression. Of course, debt can really weigh you down too.

I do understand the "high" you can get when getting attention from the opposite sex. That was M3 in my case. But I knew the reasons. For my H when he left, I know it was his friend/co-worker. Why, cuz he worked on her car. Although, he said he was just being nice - true - but it gave him that high & stroked his ego. The main part, is not to let the fog overtake you, from this innocent attention.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)