Can anyone answer this? Part 6

[peacetoday]

I think the problem with dating so new into this is b/c it is a distraction
and
we are vunerable we may get pulled into something not right for us
we may want to show ourselves and XH we are still attractive

but
it wont work
b/c chances are we will not so the work inside that is so needed ( just like whhat our xh did)
time for dating will come later
work on yourself
you may not be able to make a good choice in a R now
peace