I would like some advice. I have a thread on Newcomers trying to GAL, DR etc as I have a WAW. I do not want to believe she is involved in an EA/PA and for four months I have snooped and accused, though the last time was in January, but I have never found any evidence to support this apart from the usual ILYBIANILWU, distance, no physical contact etc.
I have my children this weekend as we are now seperated. My daughter tried on numerous occasions to call my wife on our landline and her mobile, but there was no answer until approximately 11am this morning. My wife told my daughter she slept in and did not hear the phone, which I find hard to believe because she is such a light sleeper. I went around the house in the last hour to pick up some clothes. I probably should not have done, but I looked around and found the night lights were still on, the fish tank lights were not switched on, the curtains in the bathroom were still drawn, and her toothbrush was not there. She told my daughter she was going from home after she got up to go swimming with her friend. I do not believe for one minute she was at our home last night and after reading this I guess most people probably would say the same.
This is the first instance of maybe a possible EA has developed into a PA, though I feel sick just writing this, because I now have the children every other weekend, which allows my wife to do whatever she is doing.
A few weeks ago I would have flipped my lid, accused her of lying and who is she seeing. I am so confused, hurt because I do not know what to do now. Please give me some advice and am I being paranoid?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
