We know it doesn't feel right...it's counter-intuitive to what you feel...but it's the right thing to do under the circumstances. He has to see your changes for himself. Not enough time has passed. He already knows how you feel...you don't have to keep reminding him. We know it's hard too! Don't talk about your relationship...if he wants to talk about it, then listen to him, make eye contact with him, and validate his feelings. You not contacting him will not give him the wrong idea.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.