I am having the hardest time doing this. My H left me and one thing he said was that I was not interested in him. I didn't want to do things that he was interested in and I didn't act interested in him. I do not know if I am supposed to distance myself from him or just try to be his friend and not talk about the relationship. The one night I did really listen he opened up to me and hugged me close twice. I want to feel that again, but I am scared that me not contacting him is giving him the idea that I don't need him. He admits that he wants to be someone's Knight in Shining armor. Me showing that I am independent and moving on and not contacting him doesn't feel right. HELP ME PLEASE!
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
