thank you so much sandi, everything your saying is true and i admire your honesty, not been on for 2 days beacuse things took a massive turn on friday evening. my wife phoned me at 4am and was all upset and said she loved me so so much and she wanted to come home, guys this hit my like a train, my emotions was all over the place, i went and picked her up about 4.30am, we sat and chatted until 9am, we disscussed everything past and present, we spoke all saturday to, my wife is very regretful and me to, so our situation now is, were taking things slow beacuse its not a race, we have time on our hands thats for sure. i will post back soon guys, i need advice on piecing now and how to deal with the past, thank you all you brought me here and i will always remember
