I still wear my ring even though I am nearing the end of my D. I have been trying to decide whether or not I will wear it after. But I think I will make that decision at that time. I think you do wear your ring. You are still married right? It shows a sign of respect for marriage and loyalness and faithfulness to your vows and S.
As far as the rest of the questions... I'm sure your H knows you don't want this. Actually, 25yearsmic would be best to ask on this one since she is an attorney.
Don't grovel, thats for sure. Probably best to let him do the question asking and then you answer with politeness. Stand tall, but not cocky. Be nice and friendly, but not needy. Show respect for yourself. That is great that you are working on yourself. But remember like I am told all the time, do it for you. He will notice, but he may not saying anything. Don't be hurt if he doesn't acknowledge anything. He will notice. He may just have his own reasons for not saying anything. He might say something as well. I don't know.
Don't break down in front of him. Just act strong and calm and cool. Do the best you can. I know it won't be easy. Pray before you see him that God gives you the strength you need to handle the situation the best you can that day.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...