Craig is right. I learned what little I do know the hard way and with much trial and error and forced humility. That picture was just a joke. I wasn't talking about DBing. The guys just teased that I was because of how the picture looked. We were actually in the middle of a joke when it was snapped.
No I don't believe a person just wakes up one day wanting something new. I think it comes into their thoughts slowly and deceptively.
Your husband, in my opinion, is shallow and deceived into thinking his life will be better if he just switches rides, so to speak. The problem with that is unless you clean yourself and your own garbage up (which he is not doing), you're just gonna screw up the new ride too.
That's what you need to make sure YOU DON'T do.
That's why you need to take care of yourself mentally and emotionally before you jump into a new relationship.
New wears off at different stages.
But one thing you can bet on is reality WILL ALWAYS come knockin.
