Just curious, do you pray for His will, or saving the M? I wonder if asking FOR THE M is sometimes a bit like telling God what to do. Besides, there is free will and your h has exercised his...for better or for WORSE...
I have a gf who's h left her over 2 years ago and the DIV was final 14 months ago and he told her he does not want to speak to her or see her, etc. And she prays EVERY DAY that they'll reconcile. Aside from the cynical part of me that thinks, "get a grip and move on..." b/c how clear can her ex h be? But the other part of me thinks, "why not ask God for guidance and strength, instead of giving Him a "to do" list?
Know what i mean?
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016