Thanks Amy and you are right, what I call back to normal is really NO WHERE I want to be. I want a NEW NORMAL. I want a new me. Somewhere somehow it all started going wrong. I want your opinion. Do you believe that one day a person wakes up and says hmmmm I want something better, something new. This is what my xh said. NOT the part about waking up one day and saying it, but wanting something new, new companionship. What exactly does that mean? I know what it sounds like it means, but really, how does one just decide to do that? Anyway also, how long does it take for the new to wear off? I was a newlywed once, but I cant remember. I know everyone is different. I just wonder if his TRUE personality is gonna show itself soon. In your opinion, is it possible for one person to change their whole personality when with someone else? I know I am going thru changes, but how can a MLCer go thru their change and find their problems while living with someone that they think makes them happy? YOu said I needed to heal, well doesnt the MLCer need to heal also? How in the world will the next relationship work if we dont?
Ok, shoot me now. Sorry about all the questions, but truly after seeing that picture of you with your finger pointing in the air, I feel like you know your stuff. It just fits you. I think you missed your calling. By the way where did/do you get your knowledge from?
