What do you feel comfortable with? If it makes you feel good to wear your rings, wear them. It sounds like you will look like a million bucks, which will give you the confidence to walk in there head up and ready for anything.
Would you want to talk to him? Its hard to walk into any unknown situation where the emotions are high and your not sure what to expect. I'm sure you've played things out in your head and maybe get an idea of how you can react to certain things so depending on how things go you will be mentally prepared with an appropriate response.
I know I'm not very helpful, but its what I tend to do before I go into anything like that. If I play out the possibilities in my mind, then when I'm faced with them IRL I have a little bit of an idea of what to/not say/do to help/hurt me. Not saying it always goes that way, but it has often given me the extra 2 seconds I needed to refrain from saying/doing something that would only harm me in the end.
No matter what happens. Good luck and I'm praying for good things for you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option