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Re: You'll never see me fall from grace bluerain #1753908 04/19/09 03:37 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA S Sugar and Spice OP Member
OP Sugar and Spice Member S Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA	I told my H a long time ago that him moving in with her would be a deal breaker and that isn't what I have the problem with. He isn't moving in with her, no matter where she lives. My problem is how do I let my MIL know how much she has hurt me and pissed me off by making the offer to "THEM?" In the grand scheme of things, I don't really give a rats ass if she rents that house to her or not, its not my business and it just doesn't concern me. My issue is that she has seen what my kids and I have gone through with the A and the baby and the gambling and everything and knowing this, can still make that offer. I am stunned and betrayed and hurt and mad and etc... Just so you all know I have made all of these feelings known to H and he understands where I'm coming from, but he just doesn't see it the same way as I do (wow...shocker!) because that is how his family operates. MIL allowed SIL and her 2 daughters to move in there when SIL was cheating on her last H with her current H and he ended up moving in there as well. Its not a healthy situation and I can honestly say that in the back of my mind I have sort of been waiting for something like this, but its so much fresher and painful when it actually happens. One of my friends IRL thinks that she just didn't think it through and its motivated more by $$ and scoring mommy points. I just don't give people that much credit anymore. So what do I say? If I do it when I'm mad, she will shut down and be defensive, and the mad is to cover the hurt. I am ususally fairly articulate, but I'm having a hard time putting this one into words. M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option

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You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 07:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 08:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/12/09 09:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	03/18/09 08:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 08:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 09:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 01:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/20/09 02:31 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 05:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 08:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	03/20/09 08:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	03/20/09 11:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/22/09 04:12 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	03/22/09 08:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/24/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/30/09 05:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/30/09 11:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/31/09 11:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/01/09 01:05 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/01/09 02:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 07:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/01/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/01/09 08:56 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/01/09 09:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 09:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/01/09 10:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/01/09 10:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	marriedCrazy	04/02/09 11:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/02/09 12:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/02/09 01:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/02/09 01:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/02/09 01:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/02/09 02:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 04:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 05:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/02/09 05:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 05:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 07:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 08:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/03/09 11:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/04/09 12:40 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 06:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/15/09 01:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/15/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/15/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 08:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/18/09 06:03 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/18/09 06:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/18/09 07:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/18/09 07:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 03:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/19/09 03:51 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/19/09 06:09 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 06:52 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/19/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/20/09 02:52 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/20/09 12:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/20/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/20/09 06:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/20/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 11:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 12:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/21/09 03:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 04:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 04:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 06:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 07:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 07:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 07:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 07:34 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/23/09 11:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/23/09 11:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/24/09 02:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/24/09 03:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/28/09 10:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/29/09 02:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/07/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/07/09 10:00 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/08/09 01:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/08/09 04:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/10/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/10/09 08:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/12/09 01:00 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/13/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/14/09 07:15 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	05/14/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/14/09 07:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/14/09 08:30 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	05/14/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/15/09 01:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/15/09 08:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/18/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 09:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/20/09 04:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/20/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/20/09 06:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/20/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/21/09 03:40 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/21/09 10:43 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/21/09 11:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/22/09 12:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/22/09 01:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/22/09 06:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/23/09 12:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/28/09 11:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:29 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:56 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/29/09 12:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:12 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/30/09 06:46 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	05/30/09 08:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/30/09 12:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/30/09 04:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/30/09 07:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/31/09 12:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/04/09 08:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/05/09 06:33 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	06/05/09 10:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/05/09 12:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/05/09 01:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/05/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/05/09 04:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Exhausted67	06/05/09 09:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/09/09 05:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 05:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/09/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 06:27 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/09/09 09:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/10/09 04:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	06/11/09 05:41 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/12/09 06:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/12/09 01:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/14/09 05:16 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 05:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 05:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/15/09 08:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/15/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 10:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 03:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/17/09 06:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	06/17/09 06:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/17/09 08:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/17/09 09:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 11:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/18/09 12:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/22/09 09:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/24/09 11:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 02:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/25/09 03:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 03:22 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	faithisbelieving	06/26/09 03:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/30/09 06:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/30/09 09:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	07/13/09 08:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	07/13/09 08:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/13/09 09:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/13/09 09:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/19/09 03:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/19/09 08:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/20/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	07/30/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/30/09 08:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	07/31/09 02:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/31/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	08/17/09 03:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	08/29/09 12:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	08/29/09 06:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	08/31/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 05:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 06:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/03/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/04/09 12:01 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/04/09 04:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/10/09 03:18 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	09/10/09 02:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/10/09 02:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/21/09 11:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	12/26/09 06:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	12/28/09 05:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	12/29/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/18/10 07:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/19/10 01:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/20/10 07:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	chatterbug	01/20/10 11:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	01/20/10 03:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/20/10 07:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/18/10 05:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/21/10 05:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/21/10 06:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	11/04/10 06:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	11/04/10 06:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	sgctxok	11/08/10 05:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/13/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 05:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/02/09 05:29 PM

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