FLTC, I really don't see how having a piece of paper that says "divorced" is going to change the "limbo" feeling. I have no fantasies nor desires to have her back as wife, she's still the same person she was when we were together. Normally I rarely see her except for family reasons. As far as Yoga, it's once every two weeks and I'm passing next week as I have other plans. I have two goals here, one is to keep my family as healthy as I can and that means being in some ways friendly with my ex. The other is to move on as a man which I find far more difficult. I know what it's like to be a family man but I'm out in left field when it comes to being a single man. During the first year of separation I actually felt like there was some amazing future out there for me, I was a desirable man, even after a couple of pretty negative experiences but entering that second year I lost that feeling of confidence. Anyway, don't be concerned about me getting myself into some kind of warped fantasy world concerning my STBX...why would I want that back again! Thanks for dropping by.
