Yeah, when hopeful71 first posted I thought that she may be someone who knows your W or your W. I'd love to hear the story from her eyes if it is your W, and maybe we can help her to see clearly that an affair is NEVER the way to go. We will be here for YOU, too, hopeful71.
And if it is my W or one of her friends, I just want D1 in the best position she can be in life. I don't want the cycle repeating itself. I've mentioned on multiple occasions to W, I would always stand behind her 100% if she chose to get help for her emotional problems.
I'd love to hear the story from W's eyes as well, because I'm not afraid of anything that would be true.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."