A Military Spouse.......Is it too late?

[waiting2xhale]

I decided to start my own thread to journal about what I am going thru.

Today I rode past suspected OW's residence. "For Rent" sign in the window. Less than two months from the day I followed him to her house. He moved her out of the area yesterday. She needed to leave, I would hate to bump into her at Target or the grocery store.

He didn't show up for S9 baseball game. Wow, she really has her claws on him. It's sad he's always been active in the kids lives. Now he's looking like a dead beat dad. Comes by when he wants, takes them shopping like he's Daddy Warbucks.

D4 has been having crying fits, tells me she misses her daddy. Does he realize what he's doing to our children?

REALLY? That's all I can say now. It's that serious? Comes home from Iraq in Oct, leaves the house in Jan, and filed divorce in April. After almost 10 years of marriage. Does he really feel she's the one?

I looked online yesterday and noticed he's filed. Why the rush? He's leaving in 3 months, does he really thank that I'm throwing in the towel? No, he needs to think about what he's about to do for the next 6 months.