Well.. I hadnt heard from him since his text Thursday.. so I cracked and sent him one tonight at 6pm and we have texted a bit back and forth since. The good news is, he told me he is STILL back in our hometown and spent the day shopping for a new TV for his Mum with her (so meant it when he said he wanted to spend quality time with his Mum and help her out, so thats a good sign) and that tonight, he is with oldest BMF.
So more reconnecting with whats important to him, which he hasnt since he got together with Helen. I called BMF W this morning, but she was out, but BMF chatted to me instead, I didnt mention the ex and nor did he... but BMF does love me and this is the first time we have chatted on the phone for about a year! So that was good timing, seeing as he is with my ex tonight.
Of course the best news is.. he didnt return to Cornwall this weekend to see Helen, so it must be off, or soon will be. He rang in sick for much of the week before, so he wont have seen her for nearly 2 weeks by the time he returns to work Monday. I dont know how much longer he has left in her office (days?) unless his contract already ended at Easter. I wonder what conclusions he has drawn, guess I will soon find out! Well, at least we have been texting one another all week, apart from nothing on Friday. But I could tell from MFs FB page that they were out on the town Friday night too.. so he really has seemed to woken up to his old friends he had moved away from(particularly since August and Helen era). Amazing.
