Just realize that this is the way they (WAS) are at this stage of the game. Don't say anything about it...if you want the kids, then go get them. I know it's hard...real hard. You are not alone. Many of us here are in the same type of circumstances.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
