Bagheera!! Im glad you have been responding to my posts..I have ordered this book right away..I dont know if he will read it..but i will and then give it to him.. Hopefully it will help him... I fear I am losing respect for him as a man b/c of his lack to be "manly" in our marraige.. and I dont want to say that to him..it would crush him..he is already reeling from my other behavior to have that thrown on top would be horrible..
