I'm going to think some more about moving. I need to make sure it's what's right for us and not something that I'm doing to run away from the problems here. They've offered to keep us in their home, but I don't think they realize what they'd really be getting into. I hinted at maybe moving a little while ago and he flipped out saying that his kids weren't going to go anywhere and that he was not going to miss out on their lives.
He tried getting me to pick up the kids early . . . again. He said it was because they were bored. I told him that I had made plans for the night and he was like, go figure. Then he told me that we were going to alternate weekends from now on. He gets all bent out of shape when I have plans when the kids are gone. He was rude the last time too and gave me a really hard time. I don't understand why he acts like that. It's so not fair to the kids to go from having him home everyday and being a constant presence in his life to seeing him only on the weekends. Now he's taking two of those weekends away for what? It can't be because of me. I know it's a common theme, but I don't understand what he's thinking. How can he think that this isn't affecting them when he was wounded to the core when his parents divorced and he was 33?
Should I talk to him about this and at least get an explaination? Is this something that's common with the WAS?
