peace- My XH says bad things about me to my kids too. It is so sad that they have to involve the kids in their mess. They made the choice to leave and until they process their guilt they have to find or even make up reasons why we are bad guy.
I am glad to hear that you are enjoying (at least to some degree) your new friendship. I think it is wonderful that what you "feel" for him is helping you move forward. I am envious because I think I a ready to be there too. I am so tired of the crap and excuses my H gives me. I miss having someone that makes me feel special. I hope that is what is what you are getting from your new friend.
