Wow, well, part of me understands-ish because of the baby. Hmm, but he has babies with you too, so I think that you certainly have that in your corner too. I absolutely understand, however, that this is something that you have a problem with. I agree with the goingforward, if this is a deal breaker, the sooner you speak up, the better. Even if its just, "Wow, the thought of that makes me really uncomfortable." That might be a nonthreatening way to start the conversation, or maybe you need to bring this up in MC.

Last edited by bluerain; 04/18/09 07:08 PM.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...