Have you thought about doing the psych eval to show that you are a competent, SAFE, capable person, and that you are willing to do the very thing that you asked her to do. Not that I think you need one, I just hadnt thought of it before I saw it up there. It seems like as long as you are amassing evidence, it might be something to add to your file.
I dated a guy once who was, Ill say bipolar, he was paranoid and depressed, his mania was expressed as extremely paranoid and jealous behavior, and body anxiety that he absolutely could not be consoled about. Once he told me that if his penis could not be bigger, he didnt see the point in continuing to live, and this came from a man with a child! When we first started dating, I didn't notice it at all, I was a psych major! He was just perfect, but once we had been together for a few months he would accuse me of the most bizarre things, always involving being unfaithful (never true!) and become extremely depressed, and I absolutely believe that the high of us falling in love was enough, at first, to counteract his condition. I think thats probably what your wife was writing about in her journals.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
