The other thing why I feel so stupid is the friend told me that W had told her how much she loves me and talked very highly of me. I asked if she said she loved me before or now and she never answered that. W doesn't know this woman very well and didn't really like her much (W is friends with the W that the friends husband left her for) and so I don't know why she would confide in the friend but maybe she did tell her that?

Maybe I should call up F and go out to coffee and get her as a "confidant" in my trying to get back together. Get her to tell me what W said and maybe it would keep her from spreading the rumor more?


Me-38
W-44
D8 & D6
together '95, Wed '97,
Bomb 11/18/08
Still in same house

My thread