The other thing why I feel so stupid is the friend told me that W had told her how much she loves me and talked very highly of me. I asked if she said she loved me before or now and she never answered that. W doesn't know this woman very well and didn't really like her much (W is friends with the W that the friends husband left her for) and so I don't know why she would confide in the friend but maybe she did tell her that?
Maybe I should call up F and go out to coffee and get her as a "confidant" in my trying to get back together. Get her to tell me what W said and maybe it would keep her from spreading the rumor more?
Me-38 W-44 D8 & D6 together '95, Wed '97, Bomb 11/18/08 Still in same house