CL, this is definitely the most painful moment of life bar none and the kids are always the ones who suffer the most. This is why you need to focusing on them right now to the exclusion of your W. It is impossible not to think about the pain that you are going through, of course, but by channeling your focus and attention on the kids, it helps you detach a little better from your own sitch.
Yeah. Although my kids are too young to really be feeling any impact now. I have a S2 and D4. It's not now that I worry about them. It is down the road. Chances are they won't ever remember a time when they lived in a house with Mommy and Daddy. They'll never know a Christmas morning running into Mom and Dad's room. Every birthday they'll wake up with one or the other. And at their weddings it will be awkward. Just every moment of their lives will be scarred by this.
