Well, the wife finally talked with my daughter last night. It was only because my daughter called and left a message about something she had left at the wife's apartment. The wife called me afterwards to talk about it. I guess she was concerned because I was not at home and it was 1030 at night? I told her I was on the way to pick up my daughter from the b-day party. She said she would like to come over to see my D on Sat. I said, well, she's got counseling and then we are going to go putt-putt and see a movie. She said, oh, well I guess I'll try for Sunday. She talked a little bit about work and seemed really disappointed and said I'll let you go. Ok, the next step I shouldn't have done but I did. I felt sorry for her so I called her back and asked if she wanted to go putt-putt and to the movies with us. She said I don't know? WTF? Ok, no big I said. She said when I talked to D she didn't seem like she wanted to talk to me and seemed angry. (Ok, keep in mind that it has been 5 days, my daughter initiated contact and she's wondering why my daughter isn't that enthusiastic to talk to her mother.) I said ok. She said can you call me when you guys are going to go and I'll let you know as I might have to work. Sure no problem. Got home and had a message on the answering machine. It said something to the effect of hello to my D and she wanted to see her and she loved her, yada, yada, yada. At the end after slight hesitation she said: I love you too, John.
So, nothing really new here. She's already said she loved me and here we are steadily counting down toward a 3 month seperation and the impending news of if I'm going to get promoted and get orders out of here. She has a lot to think about and decide in a very short span of time. I know she still loves me but does she love me enough to come home and take a risk on us again. We'll see.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!